Welcome to Dymphna's Diary

Although I am not Catholic, I find it interesting that "Dymphna" is the patron saint of those who suffer from clinical depression and other mental illnesses. Considering the purpose of this site is to offer inspiration and spiritual guidance to my readers, I felt it was only right I chose her namesake for the title.

In 2010, this site was set up to pass along personal information about how depression has affected my life and the lives of my family. Since then, it has EVOLVED. In 2011, I attempted to present posts that were INSPIRATIONAL to you, my readers. In 2012, I went even deeper with personal stories from people across the United States via touching videos, songs, and interviews. My hope was to show each of you that even when you feel that you are in a situation that no one else could understand, you are not alone. Through it all, my comments have remained to be my personal opinions and spiritual reflections. I will continue to occasionally post information that I feel is beneficial in removing the stigma of mental illness, but regardless I feel blessed to have been given this platform to spread God's love and compassion for ALL people. I wouldn't be where I am today without the strength I receive daily from our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. My hope is that this blog will help you find some comfort in your life. It most certainly is helping me find comfort in mine.

I want to make it perfectly clear, though, that when I make generalizations regarding mental illness, I am NOT giving advice to anyone. I'm just passing along information that I have found helpful in my life. I'm writing about MY PERSONAL experiences and thoughts. Mental illness affects everyone differently and your situation may not be reflective of mine.


Sunday, January 2, 2011

Train up a Child

I received this cute little saying in an email today…
“We never really grow up, we only learn how to act in public.”

It reminded me of the following Bible verse:

Proverbs 22:6
Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

You know what? Today’s children seem to be so much wilder than they were when I was growing up... they are, also, much less respectful than my son’s generation. We were raised not to question my parent’s authority. “No” meant NO! There was no compromising… no asking “Why?” Now, my son was taught that it was okay to negotiate in some situations, but I got the final word. But, it seems today’s kids are calling the shots in their homes!

Each generation seems to slip a little further away from “training up” our children. I think we are so afraid of what the world is offering them that we try to cushion the blow. What we could be doing in the process is making things worse for our kids and grand-kids in the long run. But if we instill our youth with the strength that only God can give them, the world can be a less lonely place - a less scary place for them.

We can’t be with our kids 24/7, but Jesus and His love can be with them – Just like He can be with us. What a comforting feeling knowing that we will never be alone again. That is truly a gift to be passed from one generation to the next… a trait that can be used to “train up” our children.

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