Welcome to Dymphna's Diary

Although I am not Catholic, I find it interesting that "Dymphna" is the patron saint of those who suffer from clinical depression and other mental illnesses. Considering the purpose of this site is to offer inspiration and spiritual guidance to my readers, I felt it was only right I chose her namesake for the title.

In 2010, this site was set up to pass along personal information about how depression has affected my life and the lives of my family. Since then, it has EVOLVED. In 2011, I attempted to present posts that were INSPIRATIONAL to you, my readers. In 2012, I went even deeper with personal stories from people across the United States via touching videos, songs, and interviews. My hope was to show each of you that even when you feel that you are in a situation that no one else could understand, you are not alone. Through it all, my comments have remained to be my personal opinions and spiritual reflections. I will continue to occasionally post information that I feel is beneficial in removing the stigma of mental illness, but regardless I feel blessed to have been given this platform to spread God's love and compassion for ALL people. I wouldn't be where I am today without the strength I receive daily from our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. My hope is that this blog will help you find some comfort in your life. It most certainly is helping me find comfort in mine.

I want to make it perfectly clear, though, that when I make generalizations regarding mental illness, I am NOT giving advice to anyone. I'm just passing along information that I have found helpful in my life. I'm writing about MY PERSONAL experiences and thoughts. Mental illness affects everyone differently and your situation may not be reflective of mine.


Saturday, November 6, 2010

"I'm Sorry"

Four things you can't recover:
The stone........after the throw.
The word.........after it's said.
The occasion.....after it's missed.
The time.........after it's gone.
Author Unknown

Today my husband and I packed up our things in the car, and headed out the door on our vacation. Seven hours later, we finally made it to our destination. Now, that's all fine and good - except for the fact that we realistically could have been where we were going about 2 hours earlier.

Here's the deal... Murphy (and his law) was all up in our business today! No matter what we did, it was wrong:
We went to the wrong restaurant for breakfast... our waitress told us after 45 minutes of waiting that she forgot to put our order in!
We followed the wrong directions... we had to turn around so many times that I thought I was on a Merry Go Round.
We went to the wrong restaurant for dinner... the waiter accidentally hit my husband's elbow with a stack of dishes and his hand was numb throughout our entire meal.

But the worst thing that happened today... Because of the stress of everything going wrong all day long, my husband and I both said things to each other, out of anger, that we both regretted. We allowed the stress we were feeling to get the better of us, and because we didn't have another outlet available - we took our anxiety out on each other! But, you know what? The saying is true... Once the word is spoken, it's spoken.

Thank God, "I'm Sorry" is as easily said.

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