Welcome to Dymphna's Diary

Although I am not Catholic, I find it interesting that "Dymphna" is the patron saint of those who suffer from clinical depression and other mental illnesses. Considering the purpose of this site is to offer inspiration and spiritual guidance to my readers, I felt it was only right I chose her namesake for the title.

In 2010, this site was set up to pass along personal information about how depression has affected my life and the lives of my family. Since then, it has EVOLVED. In 2011, I attempted to present posts that were INSPIRATIONAL to you, my readers. In 2012, I went even deeper with personal stories from people across the United States via touching videos, songs, and interviews. My hope was to show each of you that even when you feel that you are in a situation that no one else could understand, you are not alone. Through it all, my comments have remained to be my personal opinions and spiritual reflections. I will continue to occasionally post information that I feel is beneficial in removing the stigma of mental illness, but regardless I feel blessed to have been given this platform to spread God's love and compassion for ALL people. I wouldn't be where I am today without the strength I receive daily from our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. My hope is that this blog will help you find some comfort in your life. It most certainly is helping me find comfort in mine.

I want to make it perfectly clear, though, that when I make generalizations regarding mental illness, I am NOT giving advice to anyone. I'm just passing along information that I have found helpful in my life. I'm writing about MY PERSONAL experiences and thoughts. Mental illness affects everyone differently and your situation may not be reflective of mine.


Friday, December 28, 2012

My Normal

Friends-

Two and a half years ago I started writing this BLOG because of the stigma of mental illness in the United States.  Since then, this site has transformed from a "we are different - let's stand together" to a "we are ALL children of God".  I think I prefer the second thought much more than the former.  I may have a mental illness (bi-polar), but I'm not anymore different than you are.  We are all unique.

The problem is, everyone tries to compare themselves (or others) to a "NORMAL" that doesn't exist.  Everyone is doomed to fail when the measuring stick is broken.  You see, we are all made in God's image. God wasn't made in our image!  So how does that change things.  Let me try to explain...

Think for a minute about the first picture you ever saw of God.  Was he a white-haired, blue-eyed, Anglo-Saxon? or was he a dark-skinned, brown-eyed, African-American?  or was he a she?  We tend to take our heritage - our perspective, our normal - into consideration when we think about God.  We do the same when we think about humankind.








We "feel sorry" for that child in the wheelchair and the blind lady at the bus stop.  But perhaps we need to stop for a moment, because they may be feeling sorry for us, too.  That blind woman has a heightened sense of her surroundings that we will never experience.  Our "disabilities" may not fit the norm, but does that make them bad? 

I chose to use my experiences from life to write this Blog.  It's therapy for me and hopefully for the rest of you.  After two and a half years of writing, I have readers from* the US to Russia to Slovenia.   I feel God is using me in this capacity to help others - normal or not... and I take that challenge very seriously.

* United States, Germany, Belgium, Egypt, Hong Kong, Sri Lanka, Philippines, Russia, Turkey, UK, Mexico, Canada, Australia, India, China, Greece, Slovenia, and Denmark.  Thank YOU!

Carol

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