Welcome to Dymphna's Diary

Although I am not Catholic, I find it interesting that "Dymphna" is the patron saint of those who suffer from clinical depression and other mental illnesses. Considering the purpose of this site is to offer inspiration and spiritual guidance to my readers, I felt it was only right I chose her namesake for the title.

In 2010, this site was set up to pass along personal information about how depression has affected my life and the lives of my family. Since then, it has EVOLVED. In 2011, I attempted to present posts that were INSPIRATIONAL to you, my readers. In 2012, I went even deeper with personal stories from people across the United States via touching videos, songs, and interviews. My hope was to show each of you that even when you feel that you are in a situation that no one else could understand, you are not alone. Through it all, my comments have remained to be my personal opinions and spiritual reflections. I will continue to occasionally post information that I feel is beneficial in removing the stigma of mental illness, but regardless I feel blessed to have been given this platform to spread God's love and compassion for ALL people. I wouldn't be where I am today without the strength I receive daily from our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. My hope is that this blog will help you find some comfort in your life. It most certainly is helping me find comfort in mine.

I want to make it perfectly clear, though, that when I make generalizations regarding mental illness, I am NOT giving advice to anyone. I'm just passing along information that I have found helpful in my life. I'm writing about MY PERSONAL experiences and thoughts. Mental illness affects everyone differently and your situation may not be reflective of mine.


Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Strength

My son just turned 24 a little over a week ago. Even though he is an adult and has a child of his own, a job he really loves, and plans on going to college soon – I worry about him constantly.

A friend of mine has a son that will be turning 18 this week. He is lying in a hospital bed – he’s been in an assisted living facility for several years now. He does get out of that bed long enough to be pushed around in his custom made wheel chair. A chair his mother fought for… the same mother that has fought nurses and doctors and legislators regarding the care of her son. She worries about her son constantly, also.

When I think about them, I know that my concerns are so much less than hers. But still at that same time – they’re mine. I love my son as much as she loves hers. However, I draw strength from what she’s been through. Would I be able to tackle the hurdles that she has already faced over the last several years? I hope so. I’m sure with God I could… I can do all things through Christ that strengthens me (Phil 4:13). But I thank God that I haven’t been put in that situation.

I look to my friend for strength when I feel discouraged. I don’t know if she’s realized that a lot of mothers probably do that. She is a great example of God’s love and patience and strength. She may feel at times that she has been given a heavy burden to bear, but I hope she also realizes that God is using her in another capacity too… as a pillar of inspiration to me and others. Thanks Be to God!

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