Welcome to Dymphna's Diary

Although I am not Catholic, I find it interesting that "Dymphna" is the patron saint of those who suffer from clinical depression and other mental illnesses. Considering the purpose of this site is to offer inspiration and spiritual guidance to my readers, I felt it was only right I chose her namesake for the title.

In 2010, this site was set up to pass along personal information about how depression has affected my life and the lives of my family. Since then, it has EVOLVED. In 2011, I attempted to present posts that were INSPIRATIONAL to you, my readers. In 2012, I went even deeper with personal stories from people across the United States via touching videos, songs, and interviews. My hope was to show each of you that even when you feel that you are in a situation that no one else could understand, you are not alone. Through it all, my comments have remained to be my personal opinions and spiritual reflections. I will continue to occasionally post information that I feel is beneficial in removing the stigma of mental illness, but regardless I feel blessed to have been given this platform to spread God's love and compassion for ALL people. I wouldn't be where I am today without the strength I receive daily from our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. My hope is that this blog will help you find some comfort in your life. It most certainly is helping me find comfort in mine.

I want to make it perfectly clear, though, that when I make generalizations regarding mental illness, I am NOT giving advice to anyone. I'm just passing along information that I have found helpful in my life. I'm writing about MY PERSONAL experiences and thoughts. Mental illness affects everyone differently and your situation may not be reflective of mine.


Monday, December 6, 2010

Friendship...

Continuing on with our twelve days of "gifts" that we all can give to each other - gifts that won't cost us a thing...

On the fourth day of Christmas, my true love gave to me...FRIENDSHIP.

I have a group of woman that I hang out with – we call ourselves the “YA YAs”. We try to go on “retreats” a couple of times a year to learn more about God, the Bible, ourselves, and woman in general. We spend a lot of time talking, laughing, and crying. Over the years, we have really developed deep friendships with each other.

I also belong to the women’s group at my church. Every month, we (about 10 – 14 of us) get together for a meal, a short program, and plan different service projects we can do in our community. We always have great fellowship! Over time, we all have developed great friendships…relationships that are rooted in God’s love.

It’s a great thing to have true friends. It’s so fulfilling when you offer yourself as a real friend to someone else. So, what makes a FRIEND? And when do we cross the line from acquaintance to friend?

According to ezinearticles.com:

Friendship is a personal relationship shared between each friend for the welfare of (the) other.
A friend is one who knows you as a person and regards you for what you are and not what he or she is looking (for) in a good friend.
It is a pure relationship
It is string of love which develops gradually with each others involvement.

My favorite? It’s a string of love! What a wonderful gift to give for Christmas.

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