Welcome to Dymphna's Diary

Although I am not Catholic, I find it interesting that "Dymphna" is the patron saint of those who suffer from clinical depression and other mental illnesses. Considering the purpose of this site is to offer inspiration and spiritual guidance to my readers, I felt it was only right I chose her namesake for the title.

In 2010, this site was set up to pass along personal information about how depression has affected my life and the lives of my family. Since then, it has EVOLVED. In 2011, I attempted to present posts that were INSPIRATIONAL to you, my readers. In 2012, I went even deeper with personal stories from people across the United States via touching videos, songs, and interviews. My hope was to show each of you that even when you feel that you are in a situation that no one else could understand, you are not alone. Through it all, my comments have remained to be my personal opinions and spiritual reflections. I will continue to occasionally post information that I feel is beneficial in removing the stigma of mental illness, but regardless I feel blessed to have been given this platform to spread God's love and compassion for ALL people. I wouldn't be where I am today without the strength I receive daily from our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. My hope is that this blog will help you find some comfort in your life. It most certainly is helping me find comfort in mine.

I want to make it perfectly clear, though, that when I make generalizations regarding mental illness, I am NOT giving advice to anyone. I'm just passing along information that I have found helpful in my life. I'm writing about MY PERSONAL experiences and thoughts. Mental illness affects everyone differently and your situation may not be reflective of mine.


Wednesday, October 27, 2010

The Golden Rule

I really, really, really try to follow the rules – traffic rules, game rules, the “Golden Rule”, even unwritten rules – and it really gets my goat when someone else CONTINUALLY goes through life IGNORING the rules. I ask myself constantly, “Why do you care?” The child inside me answers, “BECAUSE, IT’S NOT FAIR!”

It’s not fair that I behave and “so-and-so” can get away with doing whatever they want to do. But the thing that really gets me is this: We both are open to the same privileges in life. How can that be?

Funny thing… tonight I was doing a devotion from Psalm 23 –

1 The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.
2 He makes me lie down in green pastures,
he leads me beside quiet waters,
3 he restores my soul.
He guides me in paths of righteousness
for his name's sake.

I paused at “He leads me beside quiet waters…” I couldn’t get past that part, and it made me wonder if God was trying to tell me something. Maybe I needed to be “quieted down” and quit worrying about how other people are walking along the crooked road, and just keep myself on the straight and narrow. My “job” is to take care of ME! Unless I want others to put me under the microscope – Well, you know where I’m going with this…

All I know for sure is, I am not capable of seeing everything in anyone's life but mine, everyone has their own circumstances to deal with everyday, and it's not my place to judge anybody. Plus, after all is said and done, I believe I’ll keep my eye on the narrow road and not on “so-and-so”.

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