Welcome to Dymphna's Diary

Although I am not Catholic, I find it interesting that "Dymphna" is the patron saint of those who suffer from clinical depression and other mental illnesses. Considering the purpose of this site is to offer inspiration and spiritual guidance to my readers, I felt it was only right I chose her namesake for the title.

In 2010, this site was set up to pass along personal information about how depression has affected my life and the lives of my family. Since then, it has EVOLVED. In 2011, I attempted to present posts that were INSPIRATIONAL to you, my readers. In 2012, I went even deeper with personal stories from people across the United States via touching videos, songs, and interviews. My hope was to show each of you that even when you feel that you are in a situation that no one else could understand, you are not alone. Through it all, my comments have remained to be my personal opinions and spiritual reflections. I will continue to occasionally post information that I feel is beneficial in removing the stigma of mental illness, but regardless I feel blessed to have been given this platform to spread God's love and compassion for ALL people. I wouldn't be where I am today without the strength I receive daily from our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. My hope is that this blog will help you find some comfort in your life. It most certainly is helping me find comfort in mine.

I want to make it perfectly clear, though, that when I make generalizations regarding mental illness, I am NOT giving advice to anyone. I'm just passing along information that I have found helpful in my life. I'm writing about MY PERSONAL experiences and thoughts. Mental illness affects everyone differently and your situation may not be reflective of mine.


Saturday, October 9, 2010

I Think I’m Car Sick

I went to a church outing tonight – a potluck dinner. And because I didn’t know the exact directions to where we were going, I asked a couple of friends if I could hitch a ride with them to the “party”. Now, normally I would not even think about putting myself in a position that would have me sitting in the backseat of a car that’s traveling through long, curvy, country back roads. You see, I get terribly car sick! But, I really wanted to be included at this event. Because when I’m with my church family, we always have a great time. So, I took a chance, and on the way there, I was fine. But, unfortunately, on the way home, I got car sick.

I’ve suffered from motion sickness my whole life. When I was a little girl, nearly every Sunday, my parents would gather us in the car, and we would travel across the curviest and hilliest roads my dad could find. After what seemed like 3 days, we would finally make it to my maternal grandmother’s house for dinner. By the time we got there, I was so car sick that I’m not sure how I was able to eat, but I did. (If nothing else, at least Spice cake.) Even though I knew I was going to get motion sickness with every trip, I couldn’t wait for Sunday to come. I loved those visits! I loved spending time with my family.

Sometimes, we may need to suffer some unpleasant things in life in order to get the results we want. For Instance…
I wanted to spend time with family/friends – get a little car sick
I wanted to be healthier – eat more nutritional food (I love fried food)
I wanted to make good grades in college – study harder
I wanted to make more money at work – offer loyalty and dedication to employer

We are the only ones that can make a decision if something is worth the sacrifice or not. I hope you find something in your life that makes you happy enough to suffer a little inconvenience.

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